Elton John: Why I Waited To Come Out
July 17 2012, Published 4:00 a.m. ET
By Breaking Celebrity News Staff
Elton John reveals, for the first time, why he waited so long to publicly come out -- he says, no one ever asked him!
The Rocket Man singer -- speaking Tuesday to TODAY's Matt Lauer -- says he never thought it necessary to make a public declaration as he was living an openly gay lifestyle among his family and friends. However, that all changed in 1976 when a journalist finally asked him if he was gay.
"Nobody asked me," John, now 65, explained. "When (journalist) Cliff Jahr asked me in Rolling Stone, 'I'm gonna ask you a question, but if you don't want to answer it, I'm gonna turn the tape recorder off.' And I said, 'You're gonna ask me if I'm gay or not.' And he said, 'How did you know that?' I said, 'I've been waitin' for people to ask me this. It's not exactly a secret. I live with my manager. I'm openly gay outside. I don't have a girlfriend. And nobody's ever actually out -- I just thought it was common knowledge.'"
John -- who's currently promoting his new book, Love is the Cure: On life, loss and the end of AIDS -- also talked about his unique friendship with Ryan White, a courageous boy from Indiana who contracted AIDS from a blood transfusion. (White was diagnosed in 1984 and died in 1990.)
"I just felt for him, this kid who was -- you know, just because he had the HIV virus, his family were being discriminated, he was forced to move to another town, bullets fired through their windows, firebombs through their letterbox. Wasn't allowed to go to school," John told Lauer.