Brandi Glanville says it was love – or perhaps lust – at first sight when she met handsome actor Eddie Cibrian at a nightclub in West Hollywood, California in the mid-90s, and in her bombshell new memoir, Drinking & Tweeting and other Brandi Blunders, she reveals they slept together the first night, calling their tryst “f**king hot’, and that, “I used to joke he raped me.