During Monday night's episode of the Real Housewives of Orange County, Gretchen Rossi's boyfriend Slade Smiley made a rude comment at Lydia McLaughlin's party about Lydia needing to eat a cheeseburger because she was too thin — and then he refused to apologize to Lydia.

Understandably, Lydia was quite disturbed by the whole situation, and Breaking Celebrity News has all the details.

“Slade's comment and the whole situation upset and frustrated me on many different levels, which is why I think I got more and more upset,” Lydia wrote in her June 18