We've got a first look at the upcoming episode of the Real Housewives of Orange County, which picks up in the wake of last week's dinner party from hell, where Tamra Barney kicked out rival Alexis Bellino.

In the clip, Alexis -- who was told by Tamra to "get the f*ck out" of the swanky bash -- is seen in a limo outside, in a heated discussion with new castmate Lydia McLaughlin, over whether her claims she was being bullied were valid.

"People commit suicide ..." Lydia said before Alexis cut her off, saying she "had to go on Xanax" as result of past struggles stemming from the drama when the ladies went to Costa Rica.

Tamra heard it all, and when Vicki Gunvalson -- who brought Alexis to the affair in the first place in hopes of smoothing things over -- told her "Shush for a minute," an enraged Tamra snapped back, "No, I'm not gonna shush!"