Valentine's Day is about love and romance, and for Bethenny Frankel it also means a little "lazy lingerie."

Taking a cue from her bestselling book, A Place Of Yes, Bethenny says keeping the romance spark alive takes work, especially for the new parent and newlywed.

"You have to make an effort...you do have to come from a place of yes because when you have a brand new baby every single night you're not coming home having had a couple Skinny Girl margaritas and sticking on lingerie," she told Breaking Celebrity News.